Are we humans suppposed to be, or are designed, for LTR's?

(Long term relationships)!?

I have come across those marriges where by the occupants of that said relationship are "happy in love" and are with their "soul partner" then you see them down isle 5 in the suppermarket screaming at each other cos they cant decide between them selves which fricking salard dressing they want for tea that night!

 Men and women, are in my opinion, not built for LTR's cos we want different things out of life...

Men want some one who will cook, clean, be a friend, be a lover, be a  mother (but remain sexy) they want also to remain them selves in a child like boyish state that is most frustrating when you are trying to talk "grown up speak". 
Women on the other hand, want a man who will grow up, who will develop and change who will improve and delight... Suprise and excite. Women dont want to feel like a possion or a trophy they want to feel valued wanted and desired. Women want a guy they can respect and be respected by.
This blog is not all 'man/male beating... its just maybe if they only knew what the other half wants they may them selves have a easier ride through the cobweb of male/female relationships.

If there is a perrrrrfect relationship out there then i stand errected but good luck in your quest for that never never land x  
   

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Wise words love mum...(moms extract from A.samson book) 



ALL RELATIONSHIPS  have their ups and downs AMANDA SAMSON shows you how to manage the most important one - the one you have with yourself.
The relationship with yourself can only be changed by you.
It should be the centre of your focus, not in a self-centred way, but in a way that honours you as the central point of your life.
Only you have the possibility and responsibility to find your path through life.
  It took me a long time to return to the essential sense of who i am. There is no doubt it can take hard work and dedication to find yourself and remain, as best you can, standing firmly in that light.
When we find this place, we connect with the magical universe around us and honour and nurture our own sense of being in the world. That is the essential aim of magic
Sometimes along the way we get truly lost, but  the first step to returning to youself is to recognise that you are lost. Once you have done that you can slowly pick your way back to the right path.
We are constantly bombarded by ideas of what we should be doing. It's easy to lose our centre and become drawn by peers, advertising and society, to want more than we need. The loss of relationship to the self can be devastating: it may be intensley personal; it may expand beyond our inner thoughts; we could find ourselves under the sway of people who abuse us. When we wake up to these feelings it can be very painful and all too easy to slip back into not knowing-through denial or the use of drugs and so on.
To begin to move towards yorself requires courage and sometimes help from others.
Women are particularly conditioned to be unselfish, helpful and caring and we sometimes forget that we need to honour ourselves first.
        This lifetime isn't for us to lament the intangable, fleeting and unimportant trappings, but rather to shine our lights no matter how tiny and flickering the seem at times.
Nurturing the magical spark within me may make it grow brighter and help others shine brighter.Then hopefully together we can make a larger, stronger and more magical light to chase away the shadows.
 
I hope this may help you at this moment in time.
love you lots.
mum
xxxx

I love my Mom Shes great x

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